Every person voluntarily and involuntarily puts insults to people around them. Often petty grieves develop into a serious offense, which is hard to wrest from the heart. Many people find it humiliating to admit their mistakes to anyone. This is especially true of women. It is especially difficult for a lady to apologize to a man. This is humiliating, and there is an opinion among the people that women are always right.
If a man often suffers from a "prickly character" lover, the lady must learn to eliminate conflicts and quarrels. Sometimes a man needs to ask for forgiveness. But a woman should do it beautifully and correctly, while maintaining her dignity and honor.
Men can express their grievances differently.
He buried his computer and did not want to talk to you.
In this case, the woman should "leave him alone." No need to prove your innocence or obsessively apologize to your loved one. In this situation, the lady should be silent. It is better to go about your business, and in the evening to prepare a delicious dinner. And when the food is ready, invite your loved one to a romantic meal. Let him enjoy the delicious dish. And after the lady should calmly ask for forgiveness for his "ugly act" and add that she loves her man very much. This is the most effective and working reception. The main thing at dinner is not to recall the topic of quarrel and not to provoke its continuation.
He is so offended that he refuses dinner and does not want to "hear" you.
In this situation, a nice gift or surprise will be appropriate for the woman. It should not be a primitive souvenir or gift set of cosmetics. You need to give your loved one what he craves. Suppose he is an ardent soccer fan. Get him a ticket to the match of his favorite team. When presenting a good gift to your beloved, you do not demonstrate your inclination to sacrifice, you just make him happy. This is a beautiful unobtrusive gesture, which is 99% able to melt the heart of an offended man. It remains to say the cherished words: "I'm sorry, I got excited!"
He slams the door and is about to leave.
In this situation, the lady should not make a tantrum. No need to grab him by the sleeves and swear that you no longer repeat such offense. He slammed the door - wait. Give him the opportunity to wait out time, think things over and "release the negative." After a while you can write to him affectionate sms with words of apology or a request to return home and discuss everything. Sms, he just read, and the phone call may not respond in principle. Every woman knows the nature of the partner and how much time he needs to "let off steam."
In case of any conflict or quarrel, you do not need to make a tantrum, attack with a loved one or emotionally prove your case. For a lady, this is humiliating. A woman must learn to admit mistakes. When she does it calmly, correctly and with dignity, the man quickly “departs”.
How a man reacts to insults depends on his temperament. One needs only a couple of kind words and hugs to forget about the insult, while others require heightened attention signs. If his resentment is not deep, you can use simple methods of apology:
- hug and kiss him,
- send a long sms with an apology and lacquered words of a declaration of love,
- make him smile by criticizing his own "bad" actions,
- use the techniques of flattery.
Every woman should remember that she has three powerful factors: lacquer words, tears and sex. You need to learn how to use them perfectly to be able to smooth out any conflict with a man.
Text: Svetlana Ahi
